As a hypnotherapist, I often receive strange questions from all walks of life. The most common question is: “I like this person and I want to know how to hypnotize someone into liking me back.” Can I hypnotize someone into loving me? »

Well, what people think of you is kind of within your control. You can persuade a person to be either repulsed or attracted to you. Ultimately, they also have the choice to stay or leave, so you don’t have complete power over them. We hear a lot about the law of attractionbut it is only a law of the universe.

The hypnosis trick that will make men fall in love with you is called the law of transfiguration.

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The Law of Transfiguration says that what believes in you can persuade others to believe. A bit like Obi-Wan Kenobi in the scene from Star Wars when he sent a vibration to the stormtroopers, saying, “These aren’t the Jedis you’re looking for,” and they believed him.

You have the power to send your dates a subconscious message: “I’m the one you’re looking for” or “Run away, I’m in trouble.”

How does the law of Transfiguration work? You are always unconsciously communicating to your dates and partners what you think about yourself and them.

Unfortunately, what most people think deep down is not their best self. They blindly send subtle messages about their low value and value, then I wonder why they looked so good, but the guy never called for a second date.

The guy thought she was really pretty, but, for some reason, he knew inside that she wasn’t good enough. Dating experts will tell you the things you did wrong on your date, but attraction is 99% internal.

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Appearances have little to do with what makes people like someone. You default to operating based on the relationship blueprint you learned early in life and repeating patterns, without knowing that you are doing so.

So if you have beliefs about love that aren’t very supportive, you will continue to be attracted to men or women who match those beliefs. Psychology tells us that you attract people based on how you feel about yourself.

The Law of Transfiguration states that what you think of yourself will affect what others think of you.

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When I was single, I saw the law of transfiguration in action very clearly. I would meet someone and they would be crazy about me (actually, physically attracted.)

After a few dates I was losing my mojo and they stopped calling every day until they were suddenly busy on Saturday evening, when we had a fixed appointment. The romance went from hot to cold very quickly. I couldn’t explain what happened.

I always put on a brave face at first, but subconsciously the truth was fueled by my romantic interest. They were hypnotized into believing that I wasn’t that great because that’s how I felt deep down. When I discovered this law in hypnotherapy school, I said to myself: “Oh, that’s why! »

So what messages do you send to your dates? Just watch how people react to you. Do they adore you or do they run for the hills after a few dates together?

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How people treat you depends on how you feel deep inside. Sometimes the message is received instantly within five minutes of meeting, and others are adept at fooling the person for a little longer. You probably aren’t even aware of the subtle messages you’re sending.

There are many hypnotists who claim to make you irresistible, but their tricks only work temporarily. After a while, you will eventually fall back into your default insecurities. To make a lasting impression on your dates, you need to change your deep, subconscious love pattern, then you can be naturally confident.

The Law of Transfiguration says that once you have profoundly changed the way you feel, you will no longer be attracted to those who will not love you back.

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You’ll wonder why you were so attached to your ex-boyfriend or husband in the first place and ultimately believe that you deserve so much more. You can change your inner pattern using self-hypnosis. In a relaxed state of mind, listening to positive messages will penetrate the subconscious 1,000 times more effectively than simple affirmations. 2015 research tells us that positive affirmations can improve self-esteem.

After 30 to 90 days, you will change your love plan. Hypnosis is probably the most powerful relationship dating technique available. First of all, you have to hypnotize yourself believe that you are great, and then you will hypnotize everyone you meet with this idea. When your inner mind truly believes that you are the reward, other people around you will agree. So, you can To hypnotize someone into loving you, you just need to hypnotize yourself first.

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Debi Maldonado is the CEO of CreativeMind, a personal development company. She has been featured by ABC News, FOX News, NBC News, Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post, Publisher’s Weekly, and more.