An important part of YouTuber Aspyn Ovardcontent focused on her family and her relationship with her husband Parker FerrisHowever, that has changed in recent months amid his divorce.

Ovard, 28, has officially called it quits with Ferris, 29, after eight years of marriage on April 1st when she filed for divorce the same day, she announced the birth of their third baby.

Since then, Ovard has remained mostly silent about the couple’s divorce proceedings to “protect his peace” and that of his three children.

However, she has shared a number of TikToks hinting at their split and the reasoning behind it. Ovard has not revealed the details of why she filed for divorce, but in a TikTok shared in October, she revealed the character traits she is looking for in his next relationship.

“I know it seems obvious, but imagine if they lied for 10 years or something? Imagine how crazy that is?” she said. Other characteristics listed include “someone who has a job,” “contributes financially,” and someone who “hasn’t accused” them of “cheating on them all the time.”

Here’s everything we know about Aspyn Ovard and Parker Ferris’ divorce and what she revealed online.

Who is Aspyn Ovard?

Aspyn Ovard started making videos on YouTube while she was in high school in 2011. At the time, her content focused on ongoing life updates and beauty content and featured her boyfriend from l time, Ferris. Over the years, Ovard’s content has evolved to focus on vlogs about his daily life and family.

Since her divorce, Ovard has started posting more comedic content on TikTok, focusing on her “divorce times”, talking about embracing her single life and taking time to “rediscover yourself“.

When did Aspyn and Parker Ferris divorce?

On April 1, Ovard filed for divorce from her husband, in Salt Lake City, Utah, according to documents obtained by PEOPLE. The divorce filing came on the same day Ovard announced the birth of her third child with Ferris in a video posted to her. Instagram And TikTok.

Shortly after the initial filing, Ovard and Ferris decided to suspend their divorce proceedings on April 17 to obtain additional time to negotiate their settlement.

What did Aspyn Ovard say about her divorce?

Ovard has remained mostly silent about why she decided to part ways with Ferris. However, the YouTuber explained why she didn’t speak out in a TikTok shared in August. “You see how I viewed my children and how it would affect them if their family’s personal information was shared all over the internet? Very smart, very good mom,” she said in the clip while holding her newborn in his arms.

Ovard also revealed that she doesn’t “believe in the concept of marriage” amid her divorce during her appearance on the Weekly basket podcast with Josie Van Dyke in September.

“You never know what life is going to throw at you,” she explained, adding that she felt like she “couldn’t commit” to legally remarrying. “I would have a long-term partner if I met someone, but getting married legally? I would never do that again.”

Since then, Ovard has been active on TikTok posting about her “divorce days” and her healing process. In a TikTok posted on October 11, she confirmed that she “didn’t think she had ever been cheated on to my knowledge”, but hinted at a betrayal that her friends knew about but didn’t tell her about at the time in a other TikTok shared on October 22. In the video, Ovard said she would “never forgive” the friends who knew about the situation.

“These were people who I thought cared about me…even though they were like ‘oh, it’s none of my business’; it should have been,” she said. “If I was in that situation, I feel like it would have been like, ‘You have to tell him, and if you don’t, I will.’ »

She also posted a video now deleted which outlined key traits she looked for in a partner, including “someone who doesn’t lie.”

“I know it seems obvious, but imagine if they lied for 10 years or something? Imagine how crazy that is?” she said and listed other traits like “someone who has a job” and a partner who doesn’t “didn’t accuse him” of “cheating on them all the time.”

Where are Aspyn and Parker after their divorce?

Ovard and Ferris continued to jointly raise their three children despite their divorce.

In a TikTok shared in September, Ovard revealed that despite their split, the couple remained “best friends” and posed with him and their newborn while “Bad Idea Right?” played in the background of the video.

Ovard included Ferris in other humorous TikTok videos over the past few months, even though she has clarified her relationship status on the Pretty basic podcast in September, teasing that divorce proceedings had been finalized between the two spouses.

“In terms of relationship status, it’s weird for me to say ‘I’m single’ because I haven’t said that since I was 17,” she explained. “So, actually, I’ve never been single as an adult…so it’s a different time that I’m entering into.”

Ovard continued to hint at what she was looking for in her next relationship as she appeared in a video with her sister Avrey in late October. In the clip, Avrey hinted at Ovard’s sexualitywriting “when you’ve been dating for years and now your newly divorced sister wants to date girls too” on the video.