I am writing to express my deep confusion and dismay at the recent decision of the American public to elect a convicted felon to the presidency. This event raises serious concerns, not only about the state of our political system, but also about the values ​​and principles that we, as a nation, choose to prioritize.

One of the most troubling aspects of this decision is the message it sends to the next generation. What lessons can our children learn from this? Are we telling them that honesty, accountability and integrity no longer matter at the highest levels of power? Are we normalizing that personal responsibility and respect for the rule of law are optional, depending on one’s status or influence? The very foundation of democracy is people’s trust in their leaders, and by choosing a path that undermines these principles, we risk eroding that trust.

Equally worrying is the issue of gender bias in American politics. Are we, as a society, still so entrenched in sexism that we would rather elect a male criminal than a highly qualified female candidate? If so, what does that say about our progress as a nation? It’s disheartening to think that in 2024, gender could still be a more important factor for voters than a candidate’s character, experience or vision for the future. Despite the many competent and intelligent women who have come forward, this reluctance to support female leadership reflects a deep-rooted problem we must confront.

The example we set for young people shapes their understanding of equality, leadership and who is deemed worthy of power. If we continually neglect women in leadership positions, especially when the alternative is a deeply flawed male candidate, we reinforce a culture where women must work twice as hard to be considered half as capable. This harmful and unacceptable message contradicts the ideals of equality and meritocracy.

Recovering from this moment will not be easy, but it is essential. We must work to restore trust in our institutions and leaders and promote true gender equality in politics and society. This includes advocating for greater transparency, holding all leaders accountable, regardless of gender, and emphasizing the importance of ethical behavior and qualifications rather than superficial biases. It also requires a deeper discussion about why women face such obstacles in politics and how we can collectively remove these obstacles.

This moment in history should be a call to action for all who believe in the integrity of our democratic processes and the promise of gender equality. We must engage in thoughtful dialogue, promote responsible voting, and encourage leaders who embody the principles we hope to pass on to our children. We hope to return our nation to the path of integrity, honor and true inclusion through collective effort.

David Myers is a retired, disabled veteran who still works full time. He teaches history and genealogy twice a month at the Health and Wellness Center and runs a camera every Sunday at Servant Church.

This article was originally published on Oklahoman: Opinion: Trump’s election sends a mixed message to children