You know he wants you. He can’t stop touching you and he tries to rip your clothes off. This usually flatters you, but maybe you’re looking for more than just a physical relationship.

However, you’ve been down this road before and you know that getting naked doesn’t lead to commitment, in fact, it usually leads to the guy never calls again. Before you decide “What the hell, what’s one more hayride?” » I want to suggest you use the one secret word that makes a man commit quickly.

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Now, I’m not saying you won’t encounter resistance. You have to be comfortable with that. In addition, you also have to use this word at the right time.

So when is the right time? The right time is when he wants to be intimate with you. I’m going to be specific here because if you’re just kissing, it’s not the right time.

Once he wants to be intimate with you, you’re ready for the magic word.

The secret word that gets men to commit almost instantly is until.

You might ask, “Until?” James, until what? » Well, it depends on where you are.

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For example, let’s say you just met a cute guy at the club. You danced all night and he wants to go home with you. You kiss in the car when he invites you to yours or mine.

This is where “until” comes in. For example: “I like you and I appreciate you inviting me to your house or mine. However, I I don’t feel comfortable doing this until I know you better. What do you think?”

Using the word “until” allows you to keep him waiting and let a man know you love him.

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It also suggests that you have limits and requirements, and what those limits and requirements are. A man commits quickly when he realizes he cares how you feel, respect what you thinkand is ready to negotiate with you. ‘Until’ allows you to set a standard to which he can commit.

This takes you out of the romantic relationship category and into the serious relationship category. Having standards when dating can help you have a healthy future relationship, 2019 research confirms.

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Once a man agrees to take the time to get to know you, he’s on his way to committing to you…quickly.

And if he chooses not to, you can take comfort in knowing that this is not the type of man you want to be in a committed relationship with. According to the Pew Research CenterMost men also prefer to wait to be intimate in a relationship.

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James Allen Hanrahan is a dating and relationship coach for women based in Los Angeles. He is also the author of A life of love And Dating Tips for Alpha Women.